what is your purpose of life ? to buy beautiful car , have 10 million usd bank balance, beautiful banglow, most beautiful spouse,  etc. let me ask you what is the purpose of all these. you will say gratification, happiness......let me again ask u well if u have all these will u become happy people on planet. you will probably say yes, why not. let me take u 10 year earlier in your life.for e.g. if u r 30 , imagine urself at age 20.what u desired at age 20, now u have at 30 year. r u happy now ? u say NO. then again say you have owned all those desire that u have wished  at 30 like beautiful bungalow,  10 million bank balance, beautiful spouse at age40. the again u wont be happy.you will say at age 40, if i have private plane , 100 million usd bank balance, more beautiful house than this,  then i will be happy.

basically, as long as you use the phrase IF & THEN..... I WILL HAPPY. you can never become happy. your life will expire in the pursuit of happiness. actually the happiness you r searching in outside world is actually inside ur mind. you have never turned towards yourself and examined your mind.you r basically searching happiness from external world. this external world can NEVER give u happiness.

 happiness is in ur mind. state of bliss is in ur mind. shut down your 5 sense organs which are constantly oriented toward external world.examine your inner world that u have never examined before.